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Arbituram's avatar

Thanks for this - I'm always trying to find as much ammo as possible to convince my friends who are on the fence about children that

1) kids are great; and

2) it doesn't *need* to be stressful and miserable

Aside from the societal-level demographic crisis, I think there's a huge amount of individual meaning and happiness being left on the table by people who would be great parents having been convinced that it's this awful, impossible thing.

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Emily G. Wenneborg's avatar

Excellent and very valuable review. In the first few weeks/months after my baby was born, I was quite frustrated at the lumping together of different kinds/degrees of babycare instructions: “don’t shake the baby” was said in more or less the same tone as “wake the baby every three hours to eat.” This kind of flattening of the difference between mild suggestions and matters of life-or-did not blend well with my new-mom anxieties, to put it mildly.

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